How to Avoid an Entangled Relationship.

It is a great feeling to be in love, but it's an unsettling feeling to be in love with someone who is in love with another person or an ex. When you find yourself in such situation, you are definitely in an entangled relationship.

Entangled relationships are usually offsprings of a rebound relationship which never worked out. They are described as a situationship because one partner has a part of them in more than one person and is confused on whom to choose.

An entangled relationship leaves the parties involved in a web of deceit, lies, hot and cold emotions and no destination at all.

Our blog post today deals with the topic; How to Avoid an Entangled Relationship.

To avoid an entangled relationship, requires one to be able to recognise when one is in an entangled situationship. The following are ways to identify when a relationship is heading in the direction of many webs.

1. Your partner is still stuck in their past relationship. In this situation one of the partners tend to talk about their ex or other love interest often.
They mention them in almost every situation they find relatable.

2. Your partner is unsure of the relationship as they are not definitive about their feelings. They tell you they care about you, are sexually and emotionally attracted to you, but they do not let you know where they stand in the relationship. They never outrightly ask you out, yet they string you along because your feelings exude in your actions.

3. Your partner's words and actions don't align. In an entangled relationship your partner says one thing and means another. They claim to mean well but their actions don't match their words.

When you find yourself in a entangled relationship, what do you do?

You simply walk away. Be bold enough to walk away from such situation where your feelings are treated nonchalantly by your partner's indecision.

Irrespective of how you feel towards your partner or what you think they mean; you must understand, you deserve to be with someone who puts you first and treats you right.

You do not want to be with someone who second guesses your worth and is not sure of how they feel towards you. Even if they give the best kisses and most romantic cuddles, you deserve to be with a person who values your heart and feelings.

Learning to walk away from an entangled relationship would save you the stress of emotional toxicity an  indecisive partner carries as baggage.


If you have found your self in an entangled relationship. How did you get out of it? I would like to hear from you.